May 20

B, a friend of ours who we haven’t seen in nearly a year, stopped in Tulsa over the weekend to liquidate her belongings. It had all been in storage for at least 9 months while she traveled throughout Europe. B decided to take a one month French immersion course this summer, and then I suppose she will go wherever the wind takes her.

Meanwhile, she more or less gave away everything she owned on Saturday. As a result, we got our very first dresser (yes, we are pushing 30 and have never had real bedroom furniture).  It’s beat-up, but I like it that way.

And we scored several small kitchen items, including lots of cookie cutters.

Not only is B a free spirit of sorts, but she is incredibly generous. I’m at a place in my life where I cannot be a free spirit per se. I have a family to take care of. But her generosity is convicting. She didn’t care at all about making a profit off her stuff. I actually felt uncomfortable–as though I was robbing her. Have I ever made anyone uncomfortable because of my generosity? I mean, that takes some skill.

B, we’ll miss you!  Hope your free spirit wanders back to Tulsa soon.

4 Responses to “Would you? Could you?”

  1. Rebekah Says:

    What a sweet friend that you have! That dresser is adorable!

  2. kristena Says:

    She would give you the shirt off her back if you needed it more than her! Quite the friend.

    And thanks! Aren’t the legs so dainty?

  3. beki Says:

    that dresser is gorneous! I’d leave it as is.

  4. Sarah Says:

    I love the shape of that dresser. Is it tall?

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